One major question burned in my mind: why did some couples have a successful, happy marriage and other couples have dismal, painful, unsuccessful marriages? I quickly noticed that there are some distinct differences between the two. I now know that there are distinct, clear, and learnable secrets of marriage. People often ask me if I believe in divorce. My joking response is “yes, I’ve seen it. I believe in it.” I just think it can, almost always, be avoided. I don’t believe in saving abusive relationships. However, I think we too easily end marriages more often than not -- and for easily avoided reasons! The statistics are quoted and known by everyone: nearly 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce.
And the statistics for 2nd and 3rd (and 4th, 5th, 6th, etc.) marriages are dismal. The chance of staying married in a following marriage is MUCH lower than 50%. So, divorce doesn’t solve anything. Besides, divorces: rarely end a relationship (children keep you attached, like it or not), destroy finances (both in direct divorce costs -- average cost is $20,000, plus emotional costs and financial losses), undermine happiness, and have a negative impact on children.
Here’s one interesting thing, we all know people who have divorced. They are not bad people (OK, some may be unpleasant!). So divorce is not an issue just for bad people, bad communicators, etc., etc., etc. Divorce happens to perfectly wonderful people. . . who just don’t know how to stay married!
Are you struggling to stay married, worried that you may be headed for trouble?
Are you faced with the looming prospect of divorce?
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Or are you preparing for marriage and want to get started on the best possible footing?
Or are you in a committed relationship, contemplating marriage, but want to know what makes a marriage work?
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How To Save Your Marriage ... Divorce Is NOT The Answer
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